Sabtu, 27 Februari 2016

pregnancy weight loss calendar


Well, Im not in a super good frame of mind right now. Im back to work & trying to keep busy. However, I keep thinking about the past year & where I wanted to be by now.

This time last year I was being strapped to an operating table without anesthetic for my biopsy. I could hear, feel (a lot more than I wanted), and smell the surgeon taking the lump out of my breast. I could feel Rachel (although I didnt know she was a she yet) swimming around in my tensed abdomen. I can still remember the disbelieving expression on the surgeons face as he told me, mom & Andrew that the lump he removed was cancerous.

It probably doesnt make sense to everyone why Im making such a big deal out of this. I mean, another month or two really isnt supposed to matter that much. However, Ive got some bad feelings. Im haunted by the fear that my body is going to betray me again & Ill have cancer (ovarian this time) if I dont hurry up and remove the appropriate tissue. Im also worried that Im going to lose my nerve to have this surgery. Theres also the increased risk of becoming pregnant (and most likely miscarrying) during this dangerous time. Im going to mourn the loss of my fertility, but there are definitely benefits to that loss - some of which only another woman with problems like mine can fully appreciate. Not to mention I was really looking forward to having my real foobs as opposed to these uncomfortable & ugly expanders. All

in all, this surgery was about actually *improving* my life as much as it was about preventing cancer. Its also difficult for me with my obsessive-compulsions to get over the fact that my tidy schedule has been irrevocably ruined. I want to see the end of this cancer monster that has not left my mind since this day a year ago. I want to know Ive done everything in my power to eliminate this monster from my life once & for all.

I was hoping that by this time this year Id have all this behind me. I was working really hard to attain that goal. Sadly it didnt work. Im still just as unsure about the future as I was then. Im still as nervous, scared, and worked-up as I was last year. The biggest difference is that now I have a 7 month old Rachel instead of a 20 week embryonic Rachel. I just want to be finished with this scourge called cancer. I want my life to go back to normal. I just want to be normal. If wishes were horses, beggars would ride... :-(



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