pregnancy weight loss underweight
The other day in the cab, i was thinking..
Trying to figure out why theres always this feeling of being never good enough. Its like i never do well enough for myself to feel good. I do, sometimes, on some things. But thats not good enough, is that, you have to do good for people you love, to your best ability, all the time, on all things.
Best.
How do you even try your best when you are a mum?
Since i become a mom, i always say "Id try my best", how do i know if im already at my best? The best that i promise id try to be, how do i know if i am there yet?
To blogging, "I try my best"
To being a mother, "I try my best"
To being a wife, "I try my best"
To being a friend, "I try my best"
To being a daughter, "I try my best"
To being a sister, "I try my best"
To being a good aunt, "I try my best"
It is not good enough. I am not good enough. And i never will be if i keep trying.
I will only be good enough if i stop freaking trying.
And just be. Just be the best.
"I am the best" and i gotta start telling myself. I am the best mother i can be to Meredith. Pretty sure nobody loves her more than i do haha.
I am the best wife to Josh, pretty sure nobody can tahan his quirks like i do.
I am the best family member to my family members cox i am so cute? LOL.
I am not the best blogger but i am the best me you can get LOL SO DEAL WITH IT.
I am not everybodys bestfriend and that is perfectly okay. If someone is everybodys bestfriend then you gotta be careful of this person lolol #friendho LOL.
Anyway what im saying is.. I had enough of feeling never good enough. Theres no way to trying to be the best, there will always be better, and theres no need at all to even be in comparison. Every mom is trying their best but i say we should stop trying.
We just all be the best kind of moms. We are all good moms. I also want to feed Meredith food three times a day and feed her all her milk, shower her everyday, change all her diapers and wipe her down and put her to sleep every night. And if i cant do that due to work, i just have to suck it up and look forward to tomorrow where i
can be as obsessive as i want to be lolol.
I have to stop feeling so upset whenever i have to work T.T I really have to stop. The past one week i look at my schedule and everyday including the last weekend, theres work to do, places to be.
In my head i was just like "Kill me, just kill me, what am i missing out" But i am doing my best!!! I cant be cancelling all jobs right. I already am slowing down by so much and turning down a lot of jobs. The me in the past would be a crazy work maniac and take it on regardless lol.
And then when i get home i am so tired but i just wanna be with Meredith until she sleeps. Which is 11.30pm if were lucky, 12am on normal day and 1am if were unlucky LOL. But nowadays were trying to train her to sleep by 11pm lah. But the thing is she alwayssss take super short naps in the day so its really hard to catch her pattern. But id keep watch =D
Anyway yeah, i was saying, when i get home after work i just wanna die but i wanna live to play with Meredith LOL. And when shes asleep liao, itd be a whole night of kicking and jabbing and nudging me and Josh, then next morning when i wake up at 9am id feeling like dying again LOLOL.
That is why i say, i respect all the mothers who do it by themselves. You guys are the strongest species that ever walked on earth, dinosaurs extinct liao you all still surviving. Hats off.
But hey, i am not as good as all those moms, but i am good enough for myself.
I am doing my best. I do everything by myself as much as i can and i am enjoying it, but i wanna enjoy it even by not wanting constantly to TRY to be even better.
I am good enough. I am not going to try anymore but i know.. I know i will just keep getting better.
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I have to stop feeling so upset whenever i have to work T.T I really have to stop. The past one week i look at my schedule and everyday including the last weekend, theres work to do, places to be.
In my head i was just like "Kill me, just kill me, what am i missing out" But i am doing my best!!! I cant be cancelling all jobs right. I already am slowing down by so much and turning down a lot of jobs. The me in the past would be a crazy work maniac and take it on regardless lol.
And then when i get home i am so tired but i just wanna be with Meredith until she sleeps. Which is 11.30pm if were lucky, 12am on normal day and 1am if were unlucky LOL. But nowadays were trying to train her to sleep by 11pm lah. But the thing is she alwayssss take super short naps in the day so its really hard to catch her pattern. But id keep watch =D
Anyway yeah, i was saying, when i get home after work i just wanna die but i wanna live to play with Meredith LOL. And when shes asleep liao, itd be a whole night of kicking and jabbing and nudging me and Josh, then next morning when i wake up at 9am id feeling like dying again LOLOL.
That is why i say, i respect all the mothers who do it by themselves. You guys are the strongest species that ever walked on earth, dinosaurs extinct liao you all still surviving. Hats off.
But hey, i am not as good as all those moms, but i am good enough for myself.
I am doing my best. I do everything by myself as much as i can and i am enjoying it, but i wanna enjoy it even by not wanting constantly to TRY to be even better.
I am good enough. I am not going to try anymore but i know.. I know i will just keep getting better.
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