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Hello baby =))) I waited a long time for you and i thank you for i know you are going to change my life soon =) For the better. Fact that you finally happened in my tummy, i think i have a lot to be thankful for already. So i will try to be a better person for you, and for everyone around me who love me enough to love you.

Your yeye taught me to be nicer to people who are nice to me, to give if i can and to have more patience in life.. Along with many other good morals values that I hope to be able to share with you.. Even those that i am still learning.. =) I hope you will be kind and gentle (maybe not so gentle if in case you are a boy. But actually if youre a boy also nevermind lah you just make sure to have drive, passion and goals in life and please dont date skanky girls cox I will never accept them one okay. Thank you! They only want you cox youre handsome or kind or rich or all!!! Lol). Dont do bad things to people. Dont have a bad temper like me and dont be anti-social like daddy =D Hahaha.

This is mummys diary and i hope in good faith by the time you can read and understand everything starting from this post onwards (provided this blog and the world still exists) that you know youre a big part of me.. Youre kinda like.. Vanilla ice cream on top of my already really good chewy brownie life ^.^ If you find this cheesy and corny then please know that i was 27 (but has mental age of 20 and look totally like 18) when i wrote this. LOL. Mummy never had a very good sense of humor. Just very very cheap humor. Okay. Oh god you dont wanna continue reading do you?

Okay just know that daddy and mummy are both really excited to meet you and we are already choosing names for you! I hope youre a girl or you like girl names cox thats all we have so far. LOL.

Hello you all.

Sup? =DDD

Not sure if some of you might have guessed it.. But i am expecting =DDD

I know!!!! Its soooo crazy!!! Half a year ago i was just saying i wanna finally go for fertility check-up and whatnot right?! Cox weve been trying for sooooo long and theres just no result. And i have delayed seeking treatment for the longest time cox i always believe this kind of things is cannot hurry one. But then trying and having nothing happen and then see your friends and sister popping out cute babies one after another hahaha.. It just makes you think maybe you need to worry.

But then later i give up the thought of seeking treatment again!!! Becox i just feel i should leave it up to fate!!! =X Sounds super cliche. But like me and Josh were just taking our strolls and we both agreed, if have good lah. If really dont have, its okay cox i can still dote on the kids around us.

So we JUST gave up the thought of wanting to go seek treatment about conceiving and didnt realise that meantime.. I was already blessed with a living thing in me =DDD Below is my record for what happened.

I AM SO IN LOVE AND HAPPY AND FEELING MAJOR BLESSED!!!

So then when i was 2 weeks late on 23rd July 2014 (with some other symptoms a bit too personal to discuss haha) i went to buy a test kit and the result was so vague =.=" Two lines is positive. One line is negative. My result was one obvious line, and one super duper faint line. Given that i havent been able to get pregnant, i just tell myself i shouldnt be but i could be! So i only told Mich about it. Like i suspect, but i dont think so and i dont know. Lolol.

In the end after testing, i just continue to change my pad (just in case cox my period is supposed to come anytime lol) and pull back my panty LOL. Damn graphic but thats really just what happened.

Then in the night time of 23rd i was feeling super duper hungry but i thought id wait for 4am to order breakfast in. But it was only 11plus pm. So i tahan until 2am plus, i suddenly get super bad stomach ache and had to make runs to the loo. To vomit and to lao sai big time lol.

I felt so unwell i couldnt sleep until 7am. And it has nothing to do with the suspected pregnancy i was just major sway cox ate something unclean and had food poisoning T.T

24th July at 9am i went to see the GP for diarrhea and vomiting. She treated those. But at 2pm i developed some serious body (bone) ache and fever and then i feel very nauseous again.

So finally at 10pm i went to the Accident and Emergency department at Changi General Hospital for food poisoning and they are the most efficient and caring bunch ive ever came across in public hospital =)

Did a blood test, had to be on drip and had to drink 1 pint of water to rehydrate.

So this sort of sums up whatever i just said. LOL.

And then at about 2am.. I was called in to see the doctor again for the results from the blood test.

Doctor said..

"So everything is good, no dengue, everything is okay.. Only one test came up positive..

Which is the pregnancy test. So.. Yeah. Congratulations to you two"

I think he was expecting a reaction so i was like *awkward laughter* Hahaha.

And he looked at Josh and Josh was like ____________.

SOMEBODY FILL IN THE BLANK PLEASE?

Lololol. Cox he just blank out i feel?!?!?! I already ask him before we go in, "Darling, later if i not pregnant, so be it. But if doctor say i pregnant, how are you going to react?"

His reply was "I will be happy!" So this is how his happy face looks like ah? Hahaha!

I guess Cheesie is right!!! I was probably the happiest person ever at Accident and Emergency. Hahaha. Not the best place to find out but then again if you think about it, most people find out in the toilet anyway hahahah. So.

Hahaha. Then i told my family (on group chat) the news at 2am. When i called my dad, him being a typical Chinese man, super not expressive, he only said, "?. ?. ?????" O.O Hahaha. But later i heard from Pearl (who was also super excited, and pregnant herself!!! Hahaha) that my dad couldnt sleep and was really happy. Hahaha!

Then i told Mich that the doctors confirm my pregnancy already. She was sleeping at that time but before that she already say wanna be my daughter godmother hahah. I told her be godmother must buy one gold leg chain for my kid at his full month one. She say okay she will save up $5 a day until i give birth =DDD Hahahah. Good friend is a good friend indeed.

And then i informed the blogger friends (Yutaki, Wendy, Shuyin, Sophie) cox they super night owls one and they have been asking me about my condition cox i was sick. So when i told them the news they apparently jumped up and down and scream at the coffeeshop where they were having supper HAHAHA. Not sure if i pregnant or they won the million dollar toto lolol!!!

Then i told Audrey and Cheesie and Wendy (again lol) in the group chat of which we named "Everyone Pregnant" since 2 years plus, 3 years ago. My text was "I am now an official member of this group chat" Hahaha. Nice hor the way i send out news hahahaha.

Cheesie never forget to tell me to credit her hometown one. LOL. In this post, i touched the magic tree in Hakone. Where every lady who touched it will get pregnant whether you want it or not HAHAHA. It freaking works i think?!?!?! I mean ive been trying for years.. NOTHING. Touched the tree in April and conceived in late June. MAGIC OR NOT?!?!? Cheesie touched it, she got pregnant. Cheesies friend who dont wanna get pregnant, touched it, and got pregnant. LOLOL.

Thank you Japan. Your magic tree de qi bestowed upon me a baby. I will go back and continue loving you one okay. Still may favourite country where i feel kind and grateful for everything T.T

So much for my first day hor!!! I didnt bother texting rest of my close friends becox.. I feel i could tell them when i meet them hahaha. So i only told the people i talk to everyday on whatsapp.

Went to a neighbourhood gynae in Tao Payoh on 25th July with Mich cox its apparently quite a popular choice amongst the heartlanders. But reach there to find a super crowded clinic and earliest appointment they could let me see the doctor has to be 6th August which is about 2 weeks later =OO

So we made the appointment anyway and then went for lunch. Bb your kai ma de hair a bit avant garde hor? LOLOL. More daebak than Fu Lu Shou. LOLOL.

She force me to take train to Orchard =((( But it turned out cool cox i first time can sit on the reserved seat without reservation. LOL. Ownself sit ownself song.

And again~

HAHA. Cheap thrill with Mm.

26th July - Today onwards.. I become an official pig. Eat non-stop and then sleep non-stop. Its not me. Its really the BB. I can eat a full meal now and then feel hungry 1-2 hours later.

Josh is major love one. He got me all sorts of food and stock up the house with snacks and drinks.

It was Yurous birthday, i love her so much and i will love my bb all the same ^.^ Usually i can tahan to stay at Yishun for at least 6-8 hours but omg.. That was the first time i had to go off early cox i feel sleepy easily and i feel hungry so fast!! But my dad and sister Pearl and sister-in-law all major super caring one =)) They made soup and got me drumstick rice. ?????? can eat drumstick leh lol.

27th July was the day for garage sale. I farted so much. Omg. So much that i dont really wanna stand up cox i damn scared the fart will become loud. So i just fart quietly into the seat cushion LOL.

Everyone who went to help me were so considerate and didnt let me lift a single thing =) Thank you..

28th July Today i feel quite blessed cox early in the morning, first thing i wake up was Josh passing me a birds nest drink hahaha.

Not the real deal but i LOVE all sorts of birds nest so its good.

Later i went out with my poly friends. And fed the bb yummy churros! Got tired real quick so i went home early to nap. Then woke up to a yummy dinner Josh whipped up.

=))) Beyond words becox.. Eh.. Not sure if its pregger hormones or what but every little thing Josh does touched my heart and make me feel like the luckiest lady in the world. And i feel happy for the baby becox Josh is so involved =DDD

29th July was a real loooong day. Met Si Jie (Pearl) for lunch and to buy Caspers birthday present and then went for work before shopping and dinner with the clique for Sophies birthday. I feel super sleepy by 11pm omg T.T Went home at 2.30am and then got home to this..

Josh asleep on the bed with this in his hands hahaha. He shot this book some time back and now only hes reading it. He say he fell asleep on the first chapter but still, good effort. HAHA.

Also found this note he left me on my desk.. =)))

Dont mind me okay all these daily notes are notes from my personal note pad so some notes i just wanna tell my baby directly one so you all just bear with it hahaha!

30th July BB.. Today you turn into a Sweet Pea. Daddy and mummy read that you are sprouting little nose and eyes and ears. We look at some samples growth pictures and find you so cute and ugly haha!

My helper made me soup today! =DDD Shes the best. Always making me nice soup / rice!!! My baby got ?? loh! =D

31st July Had to go for work today at 3pm. Slept in til til 9am, ate the breakfast Josh made for me and then plop back to sleep. Its 1.45pm now and i still cant get out of bed. My conclusion about the pregnancy so far.. It makes me.. SO SUPER SLEEPY AND HUNGRY. After work i went back home to continue sleeping. Gosh..

Current favourite food is mee rebus. I can have it in the morning, noon and night. I have an average of 5 meals a days, with lotsa snacks in between.. And still feel hungry. I think i am growing a food monster inside haha. Anyway these are a combination of the food Josh got / made for me.

He cook me fried eggs to go with bread, I LOVE IT!!! And also fried rice!!! Omg i think my baby damn cheap taste like me =OOO Even

cheaper actually. I only like fast food and hardly like hawker food one T.T But my baby loveee! Mee siam mee rebus nasi lemak, economical bee hoon / mee =_="

AWESOME YUMMY DINNER JOSH WHIPPED UP! I LOVE THIS SIMPLE MEAL SO MUCH!

1st Aug - Mcdelivery make me cry so badly.. I was literately crying and begging them over the phone to just deliver my breakfast to me lolol. Cox i called at 10am.. And only got the food at 2.30pm or something hahaha. But still usually i would just say fuck it no thanks anymore.

But i guess its pregger hormones that drove me so crazy.

2nd Aug Gotta work early morning on a weekend T.T It was at a home studio so its quite a small space and there were a lot of people. I had to hold it in REALLY LONG AND HARD, cox i had to fart so much. If i fart i think i will ruin everyones weekend lol.

Today is Caspers birthday celebration! I never ever slept at Si jie house before but now i get so easily tired, i took a 2 hour nap before celebrating Casper birthday O.O What has happened to me?!

3rd Aug - Morning bb ^.^ Today your not so expressive daddy kissed you (more like mummys tummy fats) hahaha =)))

4th Aug - Today i woke up at 8am out of hunger T.T Josh is the best becox the second he open his eyes in the morning the first thing he do it "Hungry, darling?" YES YES YES I AM! Hahaha!

Bb, nowadays your daddy de duty is to just be on 24 hour standby for you to be hungry hahah.

Daddy really love you a lot wor baby.. Everyday he is cooking and washing up and doing all the other household chores T.T He wont let me do any chores at all. Mummy married the right guy..

5th Aug Mummy had to run on a treadmill for work today. Damn scared you will drop out from my vagina O.O

Todays breakfast and then later found out Josh got me an extra Twister in my bag in case i feel hungry at work. Sweet hor. He also put a banana in my bag, i gobbled it up on my way to work!

6th Aug Finally the day to see gynae! I saw you today bb. And i hear your heart beating =))

Then again later i wonder if the doctor just plays this standard sound clip of heartbeat to let all the parents hear hahaha. You very lucky, first time checkup so many people go with mummy to see you.

Auntie Sam, Daddy, Mummy and Si Yi all go and see you! ^.^ But i think maybe they just wanna go for the famous toa payoh lor mee and rojak hahaha.

Anyway todays experience at the gynae was..

Super horrifying =S

I mean most of it was sweet and all with Josh and i seeing the baby for the first time.

But the experience at neighborhood gynae was kind of depressing O.O Its like i see the not-so-pleasant side of what motherhood could do to me and Josh O.O Unhealthily over-sized couples.. Auntie haggering over medical fee with the staff at the counter.. Another auntie telling a lady off for cutting her queue.. O.O And the whole place is so crowded until i just feel so.. Trapped.

The doctor is fine and decent but its just the clinic atmosphere.. Hmm =(

So i decided on that day itself that i will change to another gynae haha!

Anyway we left soon as the checkup was over! Went to buy some pants cox all my pants are not comfy anymore! Not that i grew fatter as of now cox i only gained like 1kg so far from 49kg! But i just want my tummy area to feel more comfy =D

Anyway BB, heres our first family portrait ^.^ Cannot really make out what you are right now hahah! But today you turn into the size of a Blueberry! ^.^

7th Aug - BB, today mummy has crazy hair (as always) and daddy pray out loud for you to not inherit my curly frizzy hair haha. I hope you inherit daddys IQ and mummys EQ okay. LOL.

8th Aug - Mummy dreamt so much! I even dreamt about you coming out bb! You are a girl and lotsa people RSVP-ing to your full-month party hahaha. I woke up to tell daddy he say you so pops! Ha!

Snacking has almost become my daily essential but one thing I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT - VITAGEN. Not only its one of the perk-me-up cox its so fruity and refreshingly cold and yums.. It also helps me with my bowel a lot hahaha. So everyday i must have one VITAGEN!

Craving for scissors rice so we took a cab down for it. I ordered extra rice and double egg and extra gravy. Eat until damn shiok but later feel like vomiting. So 30 mins later we cab back home. The whole day i feel like shit. So this shall be the last time for a long time before i eat scissors rice again.

9th Aug BB.. Daddy is sick today.. =( But he still cooked for us before we finally went to the hospital to have him checked.

Lotsa veggie for me and you bb! =D Made by your daddy one haha. By the way, at this point of time.. Somehow, i stopped liking fishball O.O Its so weird.

BB.. Everyday in my shower id sing nice songs for you.. And then i think about all the things you can do and how wonderful you will be, i feel so touched by how beautiful life is and then i will cry..

O.O The pregger hormones has gone a bit out of control.

10th Aug - Bb, today daddy fell really sick and got warded. Mummy is really afraid so mummy cried a lot today. Please dont be a crybaby like mummy okay. Be strong like your daddy. He had so many needles poked all over but he didnt whine. Even when daddy is sick he care about you a lot still. Whether you are hungry or not.. Whether mummy is tired or not..

All the food i had in staying awake for almost 24 hours with a 1 hour nap in between. Haha. Sandwiches at the hospital before Josh got warded.. Then his hospital dinner when i rush back to visit him.. And then food that my sisters got him and also birds nest my dad made for us ^.^

Now mummy is back home alone and daddy is in the hospital. But i miss him so much i am gonna cry again.. T.T I only have you tonight baby.. But good thing we have Drago and Tiffany also!

11th Aug - Today daddy felt better but doctors withdraw some fluid from his spinal cord and that gave him very bad headache. And Niao yi come to stayover with mummy and to help me with the chores. She go so crazy looking at mummys babybump haha.

12th Aug - Mummy woke up with Niao Yi sayang-ing you.. =___=" So awkward for me though, to wake up with belly rub. Lolol.

Niao Yi and mummy having breakfast. Her doggy MooMoo was also sick that time so she had to rush to the shelter to feed him medicine and then rush back to help me with the chores O.O Mummy is very blessed to have good sisters.. I dont think i can give you that many siblings but i hope you be gnam with your cousins okay! Haha!

Today your daddy is feeling all good!!! But doctor say he has to stay 2 weeks in the hospital to make sure the IV antibiotics goes through thoroughly.. T.T

Daddy and Mummy are just spending a lot of time in the hospital ward and thinking for chinese character sounds we like for your name that we both love =))

13th Aug - Bb today you turn into a Raspberry.. =))

I dont know how that few days passed but there were lotsa love coming from around us.. Friends bought us food we like.. Came to say hi to Josh and his family brought us home-cooked food.. And i only remember being super tired every night.. From worrying and from missing Josh i guess.

YAY Josh got discharged this evening thou its supposed to be 2 weeks more. I think other than being real bored at the hospital, he just misses me and the baby too much hahaha. So he "reject treatment" and chose to take oral antibiotics so instead of two weeks, he needs to be on antibiotics for 1 month+.

14th Aug - Sam auntie coming over to visit with lotsa fruits and food ^.^ I think she is official pregnancy food delivery man hahaha.

15th aug - Baby you give mummy really strange dreams. Everyday!! Every nap! Like today. I dreamt that i go to a candy shop with auntie Wendy. She had black hair. Then the candy and chocolate shop was 3 storeys!!! And then i picked soooo much snacks and candies!!! =DDD Then i sibeh high tide so i woke up to pee.. Didnt even get to try the candies i paid for =_=" Then later i nap back, i dreamt of being chased by dogs.. One bulldog was super persistent he so fat and clumsy but manage to jump over a high fence and continue chasing me cox me and Niao Yi was locked up in a boat yard. Then finally i bribe a guy with $10 and he unlock the door for me and Niao Yi. And earlier in the dream your san yi even walked on water on the river like God omg hahaha. Later we realise she step on the huge rocks just right underneath the water level lah.

All these dreams are so real and crazy! Dont say.. I also dreamt of porn O.O But my dream landed on a page full of thumbnails of the SHEMALE category walan oieeee. Potong steam much (no puns intended). Lol.

16th Aug - Ahahah. My father very stupid he say before i even found out about my pregnancy, he already think my backside very big and i put on weight but he say he dont dare tell me becox he scared i will wanna go cut my backside bone in Korea hahahaha. Simi sai.

Today i feel extra bloated so Josh made me ginger drink from scratch. Haha. So coincidental this cup is Jayne get for me and Josh for our engagement gift one and we use it til today. And the honey is also from the hamper Jayne sent to Josh when he was hospitalised =))) Along with lotsa birds nest that i already drank up on behalf of Josh O.O HAHA.

17th Aug - Baby mummy woke up having all sorts of dreams! From a scary mad man kicking open my toilet door and wanting to throw shit at me (i later pick out an umbrella and poke him) to just eating lotsa food. So not surprising i woke up at 8am, hungry again =(

18th Aug - Today i am going to see a gynae Wendy introduced! Thank youuuu!

Dr Law Wei Seng!!! I heard lotsa good reviews about him also so i am quite excited! Plus i wanna see how my baby has grown! ^.^

I told your daddy to go for his meeting and not come with us today becox i am angry with him actually. He didnt get me sugar with my prata like he usually would and also he sounded impatient when i pass him the spoon that he say he dont need. I mean, i know i am just being super-hormoney but i am actually really upset so i told him to not go with us. Its just me and you today bb. We dont friend your daddy today okay.

Looking super happy after my visit at Dr Laws! Cox i feel sooooooo much so much better at his clinic!!! The nurse was helpful and informative.. He is modern and not paranoid and very assuring!!! 

Dr Law makes me feel much more at ease and is supportive of me doing light sports! =D I wanna start swimming again! Its good for my back! And good to stay strong for my babys arrival haha.

Also heng that Dr Law is not those old-school kind that will tell me this one cannot eat that one cannot do hahaha. Hes quite supportive but tell me clearly what are the few things i should try to avoid.

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