pregnancy weight loss breastfeeding
Ive got several concerns at the moment. Im trying to not freak out and think the worst, but sometimes its difficult.
1) My mom has been ill with what seems to be the flu for quite some time. Shes home in bed instead of spending time (baby-sitting) my kids. Im not complaining that shes taking time to heal - NOT AT ALL. Instead, Im concerned for her because shes just been feeling so lousy. She also went with me to my doctors appointments Monday & immediately started feeling worse. So I feel like part of her illness is my fault. Send up some thoughts & prayers for her if you would.
2a) This my selfish concern(s)... I spent a large portion of Sunday and most of Monday with my mom. Im scheduled for my reconstruction surgery next Thursday (the 17th). I am absolutely terrified that Im going to have to post-pone AGAIN. I took the day off of work yesterday because I wasnt feeling up to snuff. Today I had to come back even though Im not really feeling any better because I dont want to use up all my time off (theres not much) before my surgery. I basically feel like Ive been hit by a truck & my head took most of the impact. Im also exhausted even though I slept for 14 hours night-before-last, took a nap yesterday afternoon (completely unlike me - especially since I was in the living room w/ 2 kids running around), and slept for a good 9 hours last night.
2b) As another side concern, Ive been having some bruising lately that doesnt make sense to me. So yesterday as part of my pre-op I had my blood drawn. I have large veins & usually no one has any trouble finding them and getting plenty of blood from me. Not so yesterday. One nurse stabbed me 3 times. She barely filled 2 tubes. One vein blew before she got anything out of it really. Then another nurse came and stuck me in the hand. She managed to get one more tube out of me, but it was a *slow* process that involved a lot of digging around and slow drip-drips of blood into the tube. Since I had some lymph nodes removed on my left side, I only have my right side to give blood. Im afraid theres some blood problem with me... Im going to blame any problems I have with my blood (and immunity) on after-effects of the chemo/cancer. That can also make me have to post-pone my surgery.
3) Simon is a wonderful child. Hes very smart & I really dont think Im just saying that because hes mine. However, lately hes been throwing tantrums with frightening regularity. Sometimes the tantrum starts simply because I tell him to pick up a toy or something. Other times its over bigger issues like finishing his food or going to bed. Regardless of the cause, he goes into a crying, screaming, flinging, kicking, and completely unreasonable tantrum at the drop of a hat. His cries mixed with his screaming really hurt my ears - its that high-pitched wail w/ his mouth wide open. When he flings himself to the ground (&/or does the limp noodle) it hurts to try to pick him back up & make him do what hes supposed to do. Since the tantrums last for an extended period of time, I get terribly frustrated with him. I dont ever want to punish him while Im actively frustrated. However, I dont get the luxury of walking away because it seems like he chooses to have these tantrums when Rachel is asleep (right next door to his bedroom) or some other wholly inappropriate time (like the middle of Mass). I also have to contend with Andrew... His anxiety levels ratchet up very quickly when he perceives one of the children in distress. When his anxiety levels sky-rocket his first instinct is to give into the childs desires instead of ignoring the child & helping me stay strong. Simon is also frustrating me to no end because he will not attempt to potty train. Hell be 3 on Valentines day & hes still not even vaguely potty training...
4) Rachel is another wonderful child. Shes very smart too (same as with Simon - I dont think Im just saying that because shes mine). However, her intelligence is already causing her to be a bit of a handful. She already knows how to play the game of snatching & running away. She knows shes not supposed to do something (like smack at the computer), but she does it anyway. Then I (or whoever) tell her "no". She looks at me (or whoever) and does it again. Then she gets her hand tapped. She jerks back quickly, but immediately darts back into whatever she wasnt supposed to do.I can even remove her from the vicinity of her temptation and shell make a direct bee-line for the no-no object/action again. This process can go on & on for what seems like hours.
I know I have been amply blessed by God with my family. I know that it is all in Gods hands. I keep repeating "Jesus I trust in You" to myself. Hopefully, eventually, Ill believe it. :-)
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